Stories and our reallity

This is how I begin to tell the princes and princesses stories to my daughters. The interesting thing in these stories is that always the princess goes through several difficulties until she meets her prince and live her dream of happiness.

By narrating several children's stories I realized that these tales are lived by us in our reality, but we do not realize it.

In day-to-day, we dream of conquering something, whether in the personal area, in health, in the financial, in the professional field. This dream often becomes distant or even impossible because the lack of planning and focus are strong allies for the dream to be only possible in the history books.

I once heard from a person who was trying to justify himself from his failures, the following words: "Talk is easy, in theory everything is easy, but acomplish is difficult".

What can be answered for an individual who lives with this thought? Living together is the right word because the "Easy to Talk, Difficult to Accomplish" has already become a belief for this person and everything in their life really is hard to happen. For this person, the dream only happens when they sleep or read the fiction books.

By responding to this person, the theory may be more difficult than realization itself. For the realization to happen, it is necessary to first dream, then to plan = plan of action = reason = theory and put into practice = realization.

The theory is fundamental so that the plan of action is executed in an effective way to obtain the success, that is, the realization of the dream.

In fact what is difficult is the person to realize that the person responsible for the path and result obtained is himself, without determination, planning and a lot of desire to make happen, nothing will happen!

If YOU remember the story of some princess, you will be sure of what I am referring to, they have lived true stories of overcoming. Realize that children's stories bring great teachings to children since always, see the story of the three little pigs, who did well?

Stories have witches, dragons, ghosts, evil wolves ... and yet heroes, princes and princesses can be victorious and accomplished. Note that everyone knows well what they want to conquer and roll up their sleeves to achieve.

In real life, each is responsible for writing his own story and more responsible for the outcome he will give to it. When we become aware that we are primarily responsible for our attitudes and choices, we are less likely to become victims of the situation.

The castle that YOU built or is building is made of what material? When a strong wind hits, will he resist? What action plans have you already outlined and put into practice? What are core values ​​for YOU? What are the motivating factors, your energy? What are the dreams? What achievements have been achieved? What really matters to YOU? Who do YOU ​​want to become?

"I want to become the person I want to be, not what you want me to be, so I take responsibility for writing my story." (This is my truth and what is yours?). Success to all of you!

Daniela Mello Ferreira